Because I am happy!
It’s nearly impossible to describe the feelings of excitement and happiness that overwhelm you when you find out you’re pregnant. At the same time a form of insecurity sets in. Questions such as ‘where should I get prenatal care?’ ‘How will I get through labour?’ ‘Is it normal to feel this nauseous yet crave a milkshake at the same time?’ are really not uncommon. I can only imagine what it would feel like to find out you are pregnant while living in a foreign country. My name is Romalita, I am 29 years old and a proud mother of an almost two year old daughter, and currently five months pregnant with my second one. I was born and raised in Amsterdam, our capital city. Through this blog I will try to offer you some guidance on pregnancy and childbirth in the Netherlands. Please note I am not a medical expert and can merely share my personal experiences. We Dutchies consider pregnancy to be a very natural process
We Dutchies consider pregnancy to be a very natural process
From midwife to hospital, the Dutch Way
and therefore seek medical care in the capable hands of midwives. Most women in the Netherlands remain under the care of a midwife throughout their pregnancy. After you discover you are with child, it is advised to contact your GP first. If you would rather go straight to a gynaecologist instead of a midwife, you must first get a referral from your GP. Your GP can also help you locate a midwife in your area.
During a check-up your midwife will listen to the baby’s heart and will measure the growth of your belly. Ultrasounds are scheduled outside of the midwife practice and are conducted by a specialized sonographer. Over the course of your pregnancy you will visit your midwife more frequently; at the end of your pregnancy on a weekly basis.
The midwife will advise you on prenatal care and provide you with information on labour. In the Netherlands home births are common, about 55% of births are planned to take place in the home, however you are free to indicate your wish to deliver your baby at the hospital.
Feel free to discuss the options and possibilities with your midwife.
howeveryou are free to indicate your wish to deliver your baby at the hospital.
Maternity leave (and childbirth)
Pregnancy leave starts six to four weeks before the expected date of birth. This is the moment to sit back, enjoy the last moments of your baby bump and wait for your baby’s big jump. If you choose to start your pregnancy leave 6 weeks before the baby is due, you have a total of 10 weeks of maternity leave. If you start your leave 4 weeks before the baby is due, you have a total of 12 weeks of maternity leave. The choice is yours! When labour starts you will either know it by heart or, like me, you will feel as if you ate something bad and are about to get sick. The first step to take when you start to feel cramps is to call your midwife straight away. She will check whether your labour has started and take it from there. Although giving birth is a painful experience, in my opinion it is the biggest occurrence in a woman’s life. It might be scary to deliver your baby in a foreign country but rest assured that medical care in the Netherlands is considered to be very good. And in the end, no matter where you are and no matter the pain, holding your new born in your arms for the first time is the most unique feeling in the world!